How to be Offensive

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Karen Ball & Erin Taylor Young

19 – How to be Offensive

In a world seemingly without absolutes, Christians are being put on the spot more and more when they stand for God’s truth. How do we balance God’s command to love one another with the world’s accusation that we’re being hateful or intolerant? There’s only one way, and that’s to hold fast, in our lives and our writing, to the example Christ gave us of using His word to pierce the world’s lies.


In a world that values being politically correct, that is tolerant only of those who agree with its ideas, that counts not offending anyone as a badge of honor, Christians must walk a rocky path. Speaking the truth is labeled being “narrow-minded,” and, the worse sin possible: intolerant. But is that the way Jesus operated? The way the prophets operated?

Not by a long shot.

“We are not in a power struggle but in a truth struggle.” Marty Brown

The struggle for truth has been around since Adam and Eve. Just look at Genesis 3:1-5:

“…Did God really say you must not eat the fruit from any of the trees in the garden?” 2 “Of course we may eat fruit from the trees in the garden,” the woman replied. 3 “It’s only the fruit from the tree in the middle of the garden that we are not allowed to eat. God said, ‘You must not eat it or even touch it; if you do, you will die.’” 4 “You won’t die!” the serpent replied to the woman. 5 “God knows that your eyes will be opened as soon as you eat it, and you will be like God, knowing both good and evil.”

Jesus faced the same truth struggle:

Jesus told them, “If God were your Father, you would love me, because I have come to you from God. I am not here on my own, but He sent me. Why can’t you understand what I am saying? It’s because you can’t even hear me! For you are the children of your father the devil, and you love to do the evil things he does. He was a murderer from the beginning. He has always hated the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, it is consistent with his character; for he is a liar and the father of lies. (John 8:42-44)

If that isn’t offensive, I don’t know what is. Right before this Jesus basically called the crowd of Jews illegitimate children (including Pharisees, etc.)

Then there’s Jesus’ hearing with Pilate:

“…the reason I was born and came into the world is to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me.” “What is truth?” said Pilate… (John 18:37-38)

Far to many people today respond as Pilate did:
“What is truth?“
“That’s your truth, not mine.”

But Jesus made it clear that there is no “my truth” or “your truth.” There is only Truth—God’s truth as revealed in Scripture. Look at John 17:17 “…Your word is truth.”

Still today, our culture is determined to undermine and redefine truth as relative instead of absolute. It’s nothing new. But our culture has caved on this.

Let’s take a minute to talk about the word of God. Look at Paul’s list of the armor of God in Ephesians 6:14-17: Belt of truth (that’s listed first!), breastplate of righteousness, shoes of peace, shield of faith, helmet of salvation, sword of the spirit—which is the Word of God. Truth again. Listed last like a bookend.

Not only are we wearing a belt of truth for defense, if you look, the sword of the spirit is the only offensive weapon.

Roman soldiers used the Gladius Pompeii. It was made for thrusting. A short sword 21-22 inches, that soldiers spent hours sharpening, honing, so they could be extremely precise with it in battle.

Logos is often used for word—it means general statements or messages, and it’s also used in John 1:1. But Logos is not used here. Ephesians 6:17 says Rhema—specific, precise, individual words and particular phrases.

As the Roman soldiers, we are to be specific, precise with our use of the sword of the spirit, with Scriptural truths to counter satanic falsehoods.

Telling the Truth in What we Say and Write

The right way to speak the truth:

  • Speak the truth in love
  • Speak the truth in humility
  • Speak the truth with a desire to heal, not wound; to build up, not tear down.

The right way to write the truth:

  • Tell a great story, don’t preach theme
  • Hold fast to truth and resist the temptation to water it down to make it more “palatable” to our readers
  • Explore all sides of the issue, treating characters with opposing viewpoints with respect
  • Let your characters struggle and wrestle with things that don’t fit their paradigm

So how do we as writers share God’s truth—how do we take a stand for that truth—in our work?

First, know the truth, the Word of God, well. Read, memorize, study, apply it. As you do that, you need to be okay with the process, with searching, with waiting, with seeking the truth before you share it with the world. Know that there are layers in this journey, and keep digging until God shows you His core truth, and your core message.

One effective way to dig deeper is to ask questions, then to spend more time with God and His Word. Seek His answers. And as you do so, get ready, because this process often results in a paradigm shift. Be ready to experience some cognitive dissonance, when things don’t seem to make sense, as you let go of your perspective and gain God’s. Going through that, seeing for yourself that you can do that and come out okay…that’s what people want to know about. That they’re not alone. And they’ll survive.

Then, when you write, keep these things in mind:

  • Don’t dilute the truth. When the ways of the world—the presuppositions, the belief systems, the teachings—seep into the church, into our hearts, and into our writing, then God’s truth is diluted. And we do our readers a serious disservice.
  • Acknowledge that other ideas exist and address/attack the ideas, not the people—it’s the thinking, the idea, that’s wrong.
  • Don’t belittle what seems rational to someone else. Lies are far more often off-kilter than far-fetched. Keep in mind what’s being forgotten, or downplayed, what data is being ignored. Help your readers see and understand the whole truth.
  • Share how the truth affected you. This isn’t about being didactic, not in nonfiction or fiction. It’s about sharing the journey and what God’s truth has done in your life and journey.

In the face of a world so enamored of situational truth, we, as writers devoted to sharing God’s truth, have to know what we believe, why we believe it, and then step up to speak—and write—with boldness. With the sure conviction that when God says something is truth, it is. No matter what the world says about us or Him. Be offensive, as Christ was offensive. Not with the purpose of hurting others, but with the surety that only God’s truth will save people. In the long run, God’s not going to ask us if we were politically correct. If we sold a lot of books. If we wrote great stories. He’s going to ask us one bold, even offensive, question:

“Who do you say that I am?”

And then, “Who did you tell your readers I am?”

Let’s all seek His guidance and truth, that we may answer, whether in the spoken word or the written one, as boldly as Peter: “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.”

We want to hear from you!

Have you faced a truth struggle?
How have you been challenged by the truth struggle?


Have you lost track of truth?


  1. This post is so spot-on! Thank you for noting that solid biblical Truth matters. How we present Truth (Jesus Christ) and how we’re perceived is crucial to keeping an open dialogue with our readers and hearers. Our calling is to present and live Christ well. May we all speak and teach with that in mind every day. ~Blessings!

  2. Erin Taylor Young says:

    Amen, Melanie. Thanks for your comment. Jesus says we are His witnesses. May we be found faithful.

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